Children have an innate nature of being self-centred: when all their needs are fulfilled, they are more naturally inclined to help. We want our children to grow up with self-discipline, morals, self-esteem and responsibility.

Taking on responsible roles at an early stage helps develop many qualities in children that will benefit them and the ummah in the future.

From birth, start talking to them about Allah subḥānahu wa ta’āla (glorified and exalted be He), tell them how much you love them and how you will do your best to ensure they grow up being responsible Muslims, within a framework that they can flourish and grow comprehensively.

Productive moms’ goals are greater than just getting our children to stick to a routine. Our goals should be:

• To establish the oneness of Allah subḥānahu wa ta’āla (glorified and exalted be He) in their hearts

• To love the Prophet ṣallallāhu ‘alayhi wa sallam (peace and blessings of Allāh be upon him)

• To teach them life skills and values that will see them into adulthood